Since there was no way to know who would stick around, I dated as many guys as I was interested in at the same time.That's why I'm an advocate for "volume dating."I dated 30 men in 15 months in order to eventually meet my husband.It turns out, the secret to finding love and commitment is not committing too soon.So many of my clients ask me whether dating more than one man at a time is a wise idea.
2) Being afraid of commitment because you’re afraid of getting hurt. Some people keep their options open because they want to shag around, they think there’s plenty of fish in the sea, and they also worry that someone who perfectly meets their criteria may be out there somewhere and are afraid of ‘settling’.
When I was looking for love, I often dated up to three guys simultaneously.
I wasn't trying to hit some number in the Guinness Book of World Records.
As their search for love heats up, suddenly there are a multiple men who are interested in them and they don't know how to handle it.
The other scenario is that these women fall in love too quickly with one guy and end up heartbroken time after time. Well here's some dating advice for women in particular...