My weight has fluctuated dramatically throughout my life – I was a fat child, a thin teenager, a chubby sixth former, a skinny student and so on, up and down through my adult life.
I’ve never bought into the lie, popular with some elements of the media, that everything will be better when you’re thin.
I have no idea why I came up with them btw – it’s not even like A Night To Remember was stuck in my head.
As you can see, both are identical except for the photos and the fact one has ‘overweight’ as body type and the other has ‘thin’.In our culture, people are taught, unfortunately, that being fat is bad. A fat person is just as worthy of love, respect, and kindness as any other person.I've always wanted to know what goes on inside the heads of men who refuse to date a woman just because she is fat.On the one hand, as a sex writer, I understand that people are attracted to different things, so I wanted to keep an open mind.That said, it's hard to be objective when someone is explaining why you don't give them an erection.he is confident, charismatic, charming, has a masculine vibe, makes her laugh, etc), then some women will stop caring that he doesn’t have a perfectly fit and toned body. When a woman feels attracted to a guy for other reasons, she then starts to look at his physical appearance in a more positive light.