I tell each one the same exact thing: “If you’re dating a few men right now and can guarantee me that you’ll have at least one date a week for the duration of our time together, we can start coaching.
Every day I get emails from women who want one-on-one dating coaching but don’t want to try online dating.
We all have fulfilling careers, lots of good friends and interesting lives.
We waited a long time to focus on settling down, and now we’re facing a somewhat distressing fact of life: Once you’re over 40, there is a diminished pool of men to choose from.
The definition of empathy is “the power of understanding and imaginatively entering into another person’s feelings.
So the only way you really can empathize is to know their side of the story.
I have found that I get no responses from any women online and the only women who respond to my ad are usually much older and don’t meet any of my criteria outlined in my profile.
I am told that women want to settle down and have kids, etc., but their actions seem to be to the contrary.
It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single, attractive, heterosexual woman over the age of 40 must be in need of a man.
(Guys, if you’re reading this…get in touch if you want to share!
I’m a 42 year old single male who recently left a 5 year relationship for various reasons, but mainly because I wanted kids and she did not.
So we figured out – and accepted – that the right man does not magically appear when you’re ready for him.
You have to work hard to find someone you really want and really like – or, as one married male friend put it, “someone normal” (apparently normal men are in short supply).